Trying to carve out time for me

When I worked outside the home, I thought I was busy. It seemed that I could never find enough time to do the things I wanted to do, and that I was always torn away from my favorite past times to do other things – work, mostly. I have come to realize, however, that I wasn’t nearly as busy as I thought I was, and I was, in fact, quite lazy. But to be honest, I’m still a little lazy, even though I’m busier now than I ever have been.

Or am I lazy at all?

I’ve always believed that if I wasn’t being productive, I was being lazy. Sat on the couch all day and watched tv? Lazy. Laid in bed and read a book for three hours? Lazy. Stared into space thinking about lint and aliens and dog fur? DEFINITELY being lazy.

I’ve realized over the last few weeks that it’s not laziness at all; I need that time to recharge my batteries, restart the creative juices, and push forward. OK, maybe it’s just laziness sometimes, but for the most part, I do those things when I have hit that brick wall we hear about so often, when my brain is over loaded and I just can’t deal with things anymore. I have also realized that I didn’t have these problems when my kids were young, because I actively sought out time for myself, and I don’t really do that anymore. You know, when the kids were young, I always thought I’d have more time when they were grown to do the things I want to do, and while that may be true, I’ve become worse at managing my time.

Over the last several months, in fact, I estimate that probably 80-90% of my waking hours are spent either making, thinking or planning something for my business. Another 5-10% of my time has been spent talking to Chris about his business, and the other 10-15% (depending on the day) is spent doing school work for my CPA program. I cannot recall the last time I sat down at the sewing machine just to sew for fun. Sure, I spent some time last month working on the Star Wars quilt, but that was when I was considering selling it at one of my shows. But the more I considered selling handmade fabric art items, the less I wanted to make them. So last week, I made a decision that my fabric art items will not be something I make for shows to sell. I may, from time to time, offer a piece that I’ve made but have no specific plans for, once it’s completed, but for the most part, I am choosing to keep my sewing & quilting activities out of the business. I make probably 10 batches of soap a week; I think that’s sufficient for the time I spend on making things for the business.

I have also decided that I need to set some business hours, because frankly, this “All work, all the time” thing isn’t making me too happy. My mom and Chris have been telling me for months I need to do this, and they’re right. Of course, now Chris has a fledgling business and he’s struggling with this as well. LOL At any rate, my new business hours are from 8 am until 5 pm – just like a regular office job. However, I will not be reachable before 9:30 am, so that I can spend some uninterrupted time on taking care of the books, advertising and other administrative duties. Whether or not I’m reachable until 5 pm will depend on the day, but if you need anything at all, please feel to contact me on Facebook or by email and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. Obviously, with the nature of the products I make, I’m not always able to stop and chat when someone pings me, but I always respond as soon as I can.

Jill

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Blogging failure

Sooooooooooooo much a failure at blogging lately … Not that I need to tell YOU that – you can easily see that I haven’t had a blog post in over a month. Where does the time go?!?

Things are just crazy busy around here; I’m not sitting around enjoying a bunch of free time, that’s for sure! In the last month, we’ve had four shows, all of which were a roaring success, and one attempt at Traders Village, which didn’t go so well. Alright, honestly, it was horrible. But other than that one flop, every show has gone better than the one before. And response to the soaps has been amazing.

Last weekend, we were at the Hempstead Watermelon Festival, and the feedback we got from the people who stopped by the booth was really good. People loved the look and scents of our soaps, and we got some requests and suggestions for new soaps, which we’re working on. One of those is an Oatmeal, Milk & Honey bar.

Oatmeal milk & honey

You can see the little flecks of oatmeal right in the bar! The top layer is colored with cocoa powder. Response has already been very positive, just from the photo.

But the big hit at the Watermelon Festival was our Watermelon Bliss bar, and is there any wonder? Look at how beautiful this bar turned out to be!

Watermelon Bliss

Not only is it beautiful, but it smells like fresh cut watermelon. I have a few of these left, so if you want one, you better order now. Head on over to the website and claim your bar today.

While we were out at the Watermelon Festival, we handed out about 200 free soap samples, and talked to about 500 people about our soaps. Like I said, response was very positive, so we’re hoping to carry that momentum forward.

Our next show will be on September 3rd at the Bellville Market Day. We purposely left a six week window between these two shows for three reasons. One, it’s just too darn hot to be sitting outside for 12 hours a day. Two, I am taking a summer class during this time, and I have to focus a bit on that. And the biggest reason is that I wanted the time to prepare for our fall schedule.

In fact, our fall schedule is so busy, we’re looking at booking two shows on some weekends, and sending a second team to run one of them. For the month of September, our schedule currently looks like this:

September 3rd – Bellville Market Day, Bellville, TX

September 10th – Wait listed for Cypress Women’s Group Shop Till You Drop (if I don’t hear from this one soon, I will be looking for something else to fill this slot)

September 14th – 18th – Applied for the Washington County Fair in Brenham, TX; hoping to hear back early next week

September 24-25th – Applied for the Texas Reds Steak & Grape Festival in Bryan, TX. Should get confirmation next week on this one.

So, if you need some soap, and you want the good stuff, come on out and visit us at any of these shows. Or, head on over to the website at http://www.oldfashionsoapco.com and place your order!